I’ve only ever had one physical relationship before and it was very confusing and new to me. Not to mention, the guy was more experienced with kissing than I.

I’ve tried to learn how to make out/french kiss properly since then, since the guy was always telling me I couldn’t do it right. No matter how many videos I watch or how-to’s I read, I can’t figure it out.

Help?

- Nadia

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Dear Nadia,

I- myself- have only gone so far with so many boys, so I am honestly no expert on this. But I will give you the usual tips on this: Take things slow, for one. It’s the best way to avoid teeth-bumping (which hurts) and head-butting (which hurts and is awkward/embarrassing.) Also, when using tongues, be sure to keep them in mouths. As in, keep yours in his and his in yours. You don’t want tongues all over the place. Trust me on this.

Honestly, in my opinion, it was wrong of your boyfriend to say you were “doing it wrong”. First off, even if you were “doing it wrong”, he really shouldn’t have said anything; you would have gotten better. Secondly, if he was going to take the time to point this out to you, he should have also taken the time to teach you how it’s properly done, because, really, that’s the only way to learn. You’ve got to experience it. No matter how many how-to’s you read, or how many videos you watch, only practice is going to make perfect.

With that in mind, go out and find a decently nice guy, ask him out to a movie, and start practicing. I hope I’ve helped.

-Ask Anonymous.

I hate my best friend. I really do. She’s a bitch, she’s hypocritical about everything I do, she never knows when to shut up, and all she ever does is make fun of me. I’m sick of it. I’m sick of all her shit, and I just want to get out of this friendship half the time. But then the other half, she’s great. Sometimes she’s there for me when I need it. Sometimes she’s fun to hang out with. I don’t know what to do. Help?

- J

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Dear “J”,

First off I’d like to say if you hated this girl, you wouldn’t refer to her as your “best friend”. So no matter how much you don’t like her at times, it’s apparent to me you don’t hate her. If you hated her, you wouldn’t have to ask me about this, because you would have dropped the bitch. Trust me on that.

Now that I’ve established that, on to the advice. Everybody has their flaws. She’s only human, and she can’t help but be a little bitchy at times. Just give her some space when she looks like she needs it, and if you can tell she’s in a mood try to be careful with your words. Don’t be afraid to tell her when she’s crossing the line. Warn her the friendship is at stake. That’ll open her eyes up.

The only options here are to drop her, or try to fix the whole problem. I’d highly suggest number two, but you can do whatever you’d like. Hope I’ve helped you.

- Ask Anonymous.

this is an advice column blog.

I’m hoping I can give you all some advice with all the problems that our going on in your lives, frankly some of you could use it.

So please send in whatever troubles you having, and I swear I’ll post my response on here, and that it’ll be well thought out, good advice. I promise I’ll reply to every single one I get in.

I won’t know who you are, so don’t worry about that. I just want to help you.

-Ask Anonymous.